It’s OK not to have a collar
The meaning behind a collar is a significant one. To the outsider it is usually seen as an odd thing, they think the wearer is trapped and confined to a life they don’t want, or it’s degrading to women, why would someone want to be ‘owned’ by someone else…you ...
4th December 2021
Views : 197
Communication is not as easy as people make out
We had a discussion in our closed FB group the other morning about communication...so I thought I would post this here as well. I want to say something about communication. What I am saying is from a first-hand experience that has taken me 18 years to find peace with. Via social ...
7th June 2016
Views : 1705
Learn the Language
Imagine going to a new country where English is not the first language. To them, it is completely normal, but to you, it's just a whole bunch of strange words that make no sense. Having traveled a lot, these people will usually try their best to speak English, to make an effort, ...
22nd November 2015
Views : 1556
Submission ... You chose this
We have all been guilty of being self first at some point, myself included, but it does not work. If you give your submission to someone, give it, don’t pretend to give it then dictate how it goes. If you have BOTH agreed where you want to go, work together to get there. There ...
2nd November 2015
Views : 4301
Why a mentor is so important
Entering into an alternative lifestyle can be exciting, scary, and fun all at the same time, but it can also be overwhelming. You are trying your best but still floundering, your partner is doing the same but it’s not flowing how it’s meant to…sound familiar? ...
16th October 2015
Views : 1468
Does wearing a collar mean the same thing any more?
What is happening? Although kinky folk are very welcoming of their own kind…those new to the lifestyle, who have done no learning at all and are quickly creating their own rules. This scares me…in a short space of time, this will be the new ‘normal’ ...
1st October 2015
Views : 1402
Beyond the Fairytale
Over my time of running Beautifully Bound I have come across so many women and men who have either asked my advice or asked questions in a public forum…and it’s always the same thing “How do I make my partner kinky”. So the below is related to those already ...
29th September 2015
Views : 2510
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