Sully's Thoughts



It’s OK not to have a collar

The meaning behind a collar is a significant one. To the outsider it is usually seen as an odd thing, they think the wearer is trapped and confined to a life they don’t want, or it’s degrading to women, why would someone want to be ‘owned’ by someone else…you ...

Posted By Sully B
4th December 2021
Duration : 3 Minute Read
Views : 1832

Communication is not as easy as people make out

We had a discussion in our closed FB group the other morning about I thought I would post this here as well. I want to say something about communication. What I am saying is from a first-hand experience that has taken me 18 years to find peace with. Via social ...

Posted By Sully B
7th June 2016 (Updated 4th December 2021)
Duration : 2 Minute Read
Views : 1953

Learn the Language

Imagine going to a new country where English is not the first language. To them, it is completely normal, but to you, it's just a whole bunch of strange words that make no sense. Having traveled a lot, these people will usually try their best to speak English, to make an effort, ...

Posted By Sully B
22nd November 2015 (Updated 4th December 2021)
Duration : 4 Minute Read
Views : 1897

Submission ... You chose this

We have all been guilty of being self first at some point, myself included, but it does not work. If you give your submission to someone, give it, don’t pretend to give it then dictate how it goes. If you have BOTH agreed where you want to go, work together to get there. There ...

Posted By Sully B
2nd November 2015 (Updated 4th December 2021)
Duration : 4 Minute Read
Views : 4609

Why a mentor is so important

Entering into an alternative lifestyle can be exciting, scary, and fun all at the same time, but it can also be overwhelming. You are trying your best but still floundering, your partner is doing the same but it’s not flowing how it’s meant to…sound familiar? ...

Posted By Sully B
16th October 2015 (Updated 4th December 2021)
Duration : 4 Minute Read
Views : 1755

Does wearing a collar mean the same thing any more?

What is happening? Although kinky folk are very welcoming of their own kind…those new to the lifestyle, who have done no learning at all and are quickly creating their own rules. This scares me…in a short space of time, this will be the new ‘normal’ ...

Posted By Sully B
1st October 2015 (Updated 4th December 2021)
Duration : 2 Minute Read
Views : 1761

Beyond the Fairytale

Over my time of running Beautifully Bound I have come across so many women and men who have either asked my advice or asked questions in a public forum…and it’s always the same thing “How do I make my partner kinky”. So the below is related to those already ...

Posted By Sully B
29th September 2015 (Updated 4th December 2021)
Duration : 6 Minute Read
Views : 2773
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