The Quite Mind
I love it when Dom’s are not too proud to ask for advice. They genuinely want to learn the skills to be a better Dom for their own submissive, and sometimes to do this…you need to go to another submissive to see how they tick. One thing that stands out a lot ...
17th August 2017 (Updated 2nd December 2021)
Views : 2362
BDSM Tip Sheet for Beginners
BDSM is one of several overall names given to a collection of behaviors that involve bondage, spanking, domination, and other activities that are done in a safe, consensual, non-abusive manner and in an erotic context. BDSM is a form of erotic play that involves significant physical ...
30th July 2017 (Updated 3rd December 2021)
Views : 3662
Where to start in BDSM?
This question comes up almost daily and the answer is always the same: “This is something that cannot be answered in a matter of a few message exchanges or a one time conversation.” I know people may think that they can learn it all with just a basic overview on BDSM ...
30th July 2017 (Updated 2nd December 2021)
Views : 7528
How do I open up to my partner about BDSM?
No matter how many times I see or get this question posed it never ceases to amaze me how very little folks actually know one another when they either enter into a relationship or even worse, have been together for years. I have written about this topic before, have posted notes ...
30th July 2017 (Updated 3rd December 2021)
Views : 1393
What is Dominance and Submission
Dominance and submission (abbreviated D/s) is one subset of the broader BDSM subculture, and while there are many misconceptions within western society about what BDSM truly is, it’s something that has seen an explosion in popularity within mainstream culture thanks to ...
30th March 2016 (Updated 3rd December 2021)
Views : 9700
Responsibility, Consistency and Honor
A master, a dom, a top, a daddy or whatever other Dominant label you choose to embody in this lifestyle, there are some underlying traits, qualities and attributes that need to be there in order to make the title you wear feel real to the one who is serving you. Responsibility ...
1st October 2015 (Updated 3rd December 2021)
Views : 2522
Resist the BDSM FairyTale
Reality ....One of the common characteristics I see with newer people to the BDSM lifestyle is the lack of acceptance of reality. What do I mean by this? Basically, my observation is that many approach BDSM like they are stepping onto a different planet. Somehow the rules and ...
8th April 2015 (Updated 3rd December 2021)
Views : 2158
What do I do if my significant other is vanilla?
This is a common situation and one which does not have an easy answer. It is important because, for many of us, it is not sufficient to simply bury our desires and needs for BDSM submission. This article will discuss how to approach your partner the ultimate goal of hopefully ...
8th April 2015 (Updated 3rd December 2021)
Views : 1938
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