Dominance and Submission - a Power Exchange Relationship
If anyone were to ask what 'Dominance and submission' is, they'd receive almost as many answers as people who practice it. Simply stated, though, most would agree that D/s consists of a consensual relationship that is based around a power exchange between two people. One person ...
19th August 2017 (Updated 2nd December 2021)
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Respecting the Collar
It is sad to me to see this beautiful lifestyle becoming overrun by people who think that this is all about "play" or "kink" How has it become the norm to know someone you just met and call them your "Dominant" less than a few months and many times less than a month, let alone ...
30th July 2017 (Updated 2nd December 2021)
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D/s is about an imbalance of power, not about an imbalance of equity or importance
The essence of a D/s relationship is an exchange of power. It's the quintessential element that separates it from a vanilla relationship or a kinky relationship. That exchange creates an imbalance of power between the Dom and their sub. This is a consensual and negotiated exchange ...
1st October 2015 (Updated 2nd December 2021)
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BDSM Rose Ceremony
The formal lifestyle is filled with traditions and ceremonies that are seldom witnessed by the outside world and perhaps one of the most moving and meaningful is the "bonding ritual" or Ceremony of the Roses. This ceremony is steeped in symbolism and mystique that dates back ...
8th April 2015 (Updated 2nd December 2021)
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The “Lifestyle” has changed…
I found this on Fetlife this morning and thought it was a really good read to share with you all. I have credited SweetM at the bottom of her writings. Hope you enjoy as much as I did. I had lunch with a friend about a month ago (time flies!) and during the course of conversation, ...
8th April 2015 (Updated 2nd December 2021)
Views : 2707