There are many kinds of Dominants. I'm not an authority on any kind of Dominant except the Daddy Dom though. So I’ll focus on Daddy Doms specifically.
The Daddy Dom is by far the gentlest, most nurturing of all the Dominants. He loves his little with an undying passion and always has his little’s best interest in mind, even if it conflicts with his personal desires. That doesn’t mean that he gives in to her every whim. There’s a big difference between her desires and her real needs. A Daddy Dom has to be able to sacrifice for her if needed. At times he disciplines his little. This usually hurts him just as much if not more than her, but he always does what’s best for her. He helps her set and reach goals in life, not just in the lifestyle. He will help her improve herself to be the best she can be, not for him but for her. He’s not just looking to make her a better submissive, but a better person overall.
A Daddy Dom becomes many things in his little girl’s life. A mentor. A teacher. A protector. A guide. A lover. He offers her what she needs more than anything, and that’s his unconditional love and complete acceptance. He is consistent in his actions so that she knows what to expect from him. She must know that she can depend on him. He wants nothing more than to pull her close and protect her from the cruelty of the world. But he knows he can’t, so he takes it upon himself to prepare her for whatever life may bring and be there to comfort her when things go wrong. A Daddy Dom listens to all her fears and concerns, knowing no matter how silly or childish they may sound he will help her to confront them.
Daddy hears all her dreams, desires, and dirty little secrets and praises her for being bold enough to open up and share herself with him completely. He kisses her and holds her and lets her know that she is loved no matter what.
There is nothing more satisfying to Daddy than to see his little girl succeed and watch as his lessons for her allow her to grow as a person. He revels in her daily accomplishments as much as she does herself. He will cuddle and show her the tenderness she craves when she needs it. When she’s unsure of herself he fills her with genuine encouragement. When she feels ugly he reminds her of how beautiful she is to him. He is her safety net when she’s scared. She is his pride and joy. His main priority and his reason for living. His pride in her shows in the loving way he cares for her. He is the only one for her. Her Daddy.
And a Daddy will want to spoil his little girl as long as she doesn’t abuse the attention. He takes her places, buys her things, and comforts her before bed. He is not afraid to play with her. He will join her in activities and explore kinks with her. He learns what she likes and respects her limits. He never dares to demand, coerce, or manipulate her for any act, sexual or nonsexual.
A Daddy Dom has love. Lots and lots of love to give and a Daddy needs to be close to someone with the same endless amounts of affection. Daddies are physically close. His little becomes the primary vessel for his love. Without her, he has no one to pour his affections into. And a little must pour their love into their Daddies as well. Daddy Doms need closeness in order to feel needed and complete.
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Posted By Dom Wolf
Updated : 4th December 2021 | Words : 626 | Views : 94450