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Recognising a Respectful Dominant

Posted By Sully on Wednesday 24th July 2019 @ 16:13:37

Recognising a Respectful Dominant

Posted By Sully on Wednesday 24th July 2019 @ 16:13:37

A 'Dom' v 'Top'

A Top is a person who takes the “active” role in the bedroom. Giving the orders, dishing it out, etc. While the “bottom” takes the “passive” role, obeying the orders, taking what the Top dishes out, etc. A Dom is someone whose emotional a...

Posted By Sully on Wednesday 24th July 2019 @ 16:25:04

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D/s Hierarchy

We’ve all seen some version of this. But here’s how I write it, with the most important at the top: submissive needsDominant needsDominant wantsDominant whimssubmissive wants Submissives FirstIn my mind, this is the only way it works. The submissive’s nee...

Posted By Sully on Wednesday 24th July 2019 @ 16:19:09

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Recognising a Respectful Dominant

How do you deal with finding a Dom who respects that women ARE actually people? I often find myself struggling to fully commit to a D/s relationship as I always seem to end up with men who believe it’s just their right to make me do things, without caring that a Dom sh...

Posted By Sully on Wednesday 24th July 2019 @ 16:13:37

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